From a very early age, we hear stories about birth. Stories from family, friends, neighbours, films, TV series, or social media. Some are beautiful, others are frightening. Even without realising it, they all help to build the image we have of birth.
The stories we hear also prepare us for birth
Last updated 17 August 2026
When we repeatedly hear stories marked by fear, pain, or difficult experiences, it is natural for our brain to start associating birth with a moment of danger. This does not mean these stories are untrue, but rather that they represent one person's experience in a specific context. Your birth will be a different story, lived by you, with your baby, your family, your team, and your circumstances.
Preparing for birth also involves reflecting on these beliefs and replacing them with evidence-based knowledge. The better you understand what happens in your body and the strategies that can help you during labour, the greater the confidence with which you will face this moment.
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- EMEnf.ª Margarida LançaSpecialist Nurse in Maternal and Obstetric HealthBook